The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to mistress spoon's.
| Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
| Known to Others | Arenairresponsibleunhappy needy childish passive dull | Blind Spottimidcowardly violent glum insecure lethargic withdrawn hostile selfish cynical unimaginative inane ignorant chaotic weak embarrassed vacuous self-satisfied overdramatic unreliable |
| Not Known to Others | Façade | Unknownincompetent intolerant inflexible aloof stupid simple vulgar unhelpful brash cruel irrational distant boastful blasé imperceptive impatient loud panicky unethical insensitive smug rash dispassionate predictable callous inattentive cold foolish humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) | ||
66% of people agree that mistress spoon is needy
55% of people think that mistress spoon is overdramatic
incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (22%) cowardly (11%) violent (11%) aloof (0%) glum (11%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (44%) irresponsible (33%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (22%) withdrawn (33%) hostile (11%) selfish (22%) unhappy (22%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (22%) needy (66%) unimaginative (11%) inane (11%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (22%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (33%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (11%) impatient (0%) weak (11%) embarrassed (11%) loud (0%) vacuous (11%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (22%) passive (22%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (55%) dull (11%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (11%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)
Won't thinks: withdrawn, cynical, overdramatic, self-satisfied, chaotic, needy.
anonymous thinks: violent, insecure, lethargic, needy, childish, overdramatic.
Joe thinks: unreliable, ignorant, irresponsible, needy, insecure, withdrawn.
J thinks: irresponsible, selfish, overdramatic, needy, childish, insecure.
anonymous thinks: timid, cowardly, glum, insecure, irresponsible, lethargic.
anonymous thinks: withdrawn, hostile, selfish, unhappy, cynical, needy.
anonymous thinks: unimaginative, inane, ignorant, childish, weak, embarrassed.
anonymous thinks: vacuous, self-satisfied, passive, overdramatic, dull.
anonymous thinks: needy, overdramatic, unhappy, passive, timid.
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